Q_Foreplay, for me, is much more intimate than sex. Is that strange?
A_Think of it like this; you’re at a restaurant, and you want to order appetizers to get you started before getting your main course—same thing here. You want to enjoy the build-up before the main course. It’s not strange, to say the least.
Q_Is there a way I can clean up after sex, so I can get back to cuddling quickly?
A_What I find best is having moist towelettes or baby wipes in your nightstand. Compact, easy to use, and isn’t going to make a huge mess when done cleaning up. That way you don’t have to worry about getting up and grabbing a hand towel from the bathroom.
Q_Is there a sensitive spot I can lick during a BJ to up the wow factor?
A_The head of the penis usually hits the spot. As you’re going down on your guy, use your tongue to lick the urethral orifice aka “the slit.” Doing this will enhance the tenderness. If your partner has a foreskin, he’ll experience more sensitivity in the glans. Remember, some guys are much more tender than others.
Q_Can a penis pump really help with my erection?
A_Yes! “The pump can help improve erections preserving erectile function by oxygenating the penile tissues and enhancing blood flow to the penis. The pump keeps blood circulating, responding to better erectile health,” says prostate.net
Q_Are there any lubes that won’t cause a burning sensation?
A_You’re preaching to choir, sister! I’m a lube stickler and won’t use certain brands. I’m finding that ID GLIDE works best creating that slip and slide effect we all want to achieve without any of the uncomfortable burns that follow.